30 Solo Date Ideas for Women who want to fall in love with life again.

Fall in love with life and yourself with a creative, fun solo date. I remember almost five years ago when someone asked the questions what do you do for fun and I didn’t have an answer. I made some bland response up like hiking or hanging with friends. I stopped say reading because does anyone really want to hear about the Omegaverse reverse harem or the gargoyle romance where he fu*ks the FMC with his tail. Uncomfortable for both of us.

Now this might be my introverted, socially awkward self not wanting to mention something I enjoy because I was made fun of for liking twilight at fourteen. (Where the hell have you been, loca?) However, it went even deeper than that.

I didn’t have an answer.

Now, as I have entered my 30s I am more comfortable in my brain and skin suit with the desire to try new things alone.

I feel like there is a very big different between being lonely and being alone. I love being alone. And I am rarely lonely because of the voices in my head. I mean friends.

Now Solo Dating is intentionally doing an activity by yourself. If you go to the coffee shop every single week alone to study or work, that’s not exactly a solo date. You can make it a solo date by being intentional with what you want out your time at the coffee shop. Or go to a different coffee shop and do a different activity like read a book, write a poem etc.

Benefits of Dating Yourself

The benefits of dating yourself is simple. You are hot and deserve a little treat. But if you want to get deeper. Solo Dating allows you to explore new things, discover your own likes and dislikes without the pressure of others around you and help you build self confidence with trying things alone. Also, as you learn to date yourself you will realize what you expect our of a partner or friendships which will raise the bar as you embark on building relationships.

How often should you take yourself on a Solo Date?

You can book a solo date every single month. If you want to go more often you can plan smaller date night activities at home to do each week. Make Thursday night date night each week where you get ready, set the mood and try one of the date ideas below.