The nights are getting longer and colder. That means it is time to build your Ultimate Guide to Solo Dating in the Winter.
The holidays is a time for family, friends, romance and more but if you are single it can feel lonely. There are indoor activities that might feel hard to go alone but it can be just as exciting.
Why go on a Solo Date?
Solo dates are great for your self esteem, confidence and overall personal growth. Doing something new by yourself can feel scary and uncertain. However, a solo date will remind you that you can do anything you set your mind to. It can also help you get comfortable in your own skin by doing new things.
Can I go on Solo Date even if I am in a relationship?
Yes, you can go on Solo Dates even in relationship. I would even recommend having time away from your partner in order to understand what you like and want. Many people in a relationships will try to conform to their partners interests without even realizing it. Make sure you have time for you, your interests and you will be a better partner. Also note, if your partner does not want you do things on your own or they make you feel silly for wanting to doing something, they are probably not the partner for you.
Solo Dates With or Without Social Media?
I came across a TikTok video that called out the rise of solo date type content (which I definitely contribute too with my YouTube Videos) and how you can’t truly go on a solo date if you are performing for social media.
I felt called out because what do you mean I can’t film myself skating or walking through a bookstore or making hot chocolate at home? At first I thought that of course I can film and go on a solo date because I want to share my experiences.
And then I went on a few solo dates with the rule of no phone. And I was so much more present in the moment. That TikToker (who I can’t find) called me out, I sat with it and now I agree.
Of course I think there can be a balance between documenting your journey and sharing it with your audience (if you want to create content) but it is also important to be present in the moment.
Here are 11 Cozy Solo Date Ideas for Winter
- Hot Chocolate Date
- Cooking Lessons
- Markets
- Baking
- Movie Night In
- Crafts
- Music
- Puzzle
- Love Letters
- Poetry
- Ice Skating
Hot Chocolate Date
This is your sign to pick up 2 or 3 kinds of hot chocolate and make a hot chocolate flight.
Cooking Lessons
Join a local cooking class in your area in order to meet new people
Holiday Markets
There are tons of markets popping up this time of year. You can grab a hot chocolate and wonder through the markets that are fill with music, chatter, food and more.
Baking
Spend the evening baking your favourite dessert or pick something new you have always wanted to try.
Movie Night In
Have the ultimate movie night with treats, cozy blankets, a fresh pyjama set and even your baking you already made. Pick your favourite movie and get cozy.
Craft Night
You can make a vision board collage, a junk journal, crochet scarf or toque. Head to your local craft store and find something that sparks your interest.
Music
Build a holiday feel good playlist. This is playlist you can turn on that makes you want to dance around your living room.
Puzzles
With the darker nights its good to have some no screen hobbies like puzzles. Find a puzzle with a snowy cabin or holiday theme to make it festive.
Love Letter
Write yourself a love letter. This can be to future you, past you or a newer version of you, you are trying to build.
Poetry
Try to write a poem about your solo date. What do you want to do, how do you feel, and see what you come up with.
Ice Skating
Head to your local ice rink and spend some time skating. This can be a fun activity to get out of the house.
Taking yourself on a solo date is a great way to try new things, learn about yourself and build confidence.